Double Standards

I like dude. He's super cool. But he wants a relationship and that's something I can't do. I don't want to worry about what he's doing and who he's with. I understand that's my insecurity that he can't fix. So why put either one of us through the bull? I'll just continue to treat him like a tool. I'll call him when I need some stress relieved and he's always willing and able to please. What would I do if a guy did this to me? I'd be mad as hell! If he tried it with me it would be a complete fail! If this situation was vice versa these rules would not apply! But with this guy, he's my homie, lover, and friend. I refuse to call him my man. -L' Mo